Differences in expectations regarding household contributions or personal spending can lead to deep-seated resentment.

In many cultures, particularly within Southeast Asian families, the relationship between a mother-in-law ( mertua ) and daughter-in-law ( menantu ) is often described as one of the most delicate and complex family bonds. It is a relationship scripted by tradition, yet constantly rewritten by modern social pressures, economic realities, and evolving gender roles.

Berbagi rahasia keluarga secara publik dapat merusak kepercayaan keluarga besar.

Adanya perasaan bahwa menantu adalah "saingan" yang mengambil perhatian anak laki-laki dari ibunya (fenomena enmeshed family ).