It begins not with an alarm, but with the gentle (read: aggressive) clanking of steel utensils from the kitchen. My mother, Meena, believes sleep is a luxury, not a necessity. By 6 AM, my father has already claimed the only newspaper in the house, and my grandmother, Dadi , is performing her morning ritual of watering the tulsi plant while loudly critiquing the neighbor’s choice of curtains.
The "tukda." You cannot take a single bite of food without someone offering you a second helping. "Thoda aur le lo. Bahut patla ho raha hai." (Take some more. You are getting too thin.) Even if you weigh 200 pounds, you are "too thin" in Dadi’s eyes.
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